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I'm desperate (a permanent state, I suppose, not only for me, but also for most of my fellow human beings). I've forgotten the reason why I'm on this Planet. My life seems so senseless, eating, sleeping, going to work, hobbies, of course, while all around me, the world is tumbling down. How do I put some meaning in my life?

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I'm a freshman with a problem. I have a roommate who masturbates every night and it makes me sick. She waits until she thinks I'm asleep and then really goes at it. One night she even woke me up after I was asleep. I find it disgusting to hear her moans of passion as she plays with herself. Should I tell her to stop or should I just find another roommate?

— Disgusted

Orange County Hair : Lori Drew Gets What's Due

Lori Drew charged over MySpace suicide
A Los Angeles federal grand jury has indicted a woman for her alleged role in a MySpace online hoax played on a 13-year-old girl who later committed suicide.

Lori Drew of St Louis, Missouri was indicted on Thursday on one count of conspiracy and three counts of accessing protected computers without authorisation to obtain information to inflict emotional distress. Each of the four counts carries a maximum possible penalty of five years in prison. Drew allegedly helped create a fake MySpace account to contact neighbour Megan Meier who thought she was chatting with a 16-year-old boy named Josh Evans. At the time of the incident, the Drews and the Meiers lived four doors apart in Waterford Crystal Drive, in the town of Dardenne Prairie. The Drew's teenage daughter and Megan were friends. The online relationship between "Josh" and Megan bloomed for several weeks before the tone suddenly changed. On October 15, 2006, Josh sent Megan a message saying, 'I don't want to be friends with you anymore because you're not nice to your friends'. That post triggered a flood of hate posts from other users. "All of Josh's friends and all of Megan's friends were calling Megan a whore, a fat ass. Calling her all kinds of god awful names," Megan's mother,Tina, told the ABC network in an interview last year. Meier hanged herself on the evening of October 16, 2006 after receiving cruel messages, including the last message sent from Josh which read: "the world would be a better place without you, and have a s**t rest of your life." After that, Josh's profile vanished from MySpace. It wasn't until several weeks after Megan's death that the Meiers discovered Drew's involvement in the fake MySpace profile. Drew, who was 48 at the time of the incident, has denied creating the account and sending messages to Megan. She claimed through her lawyers that she did not instigate the Josh Evans profile, nor did she use the fake profile to communicate with Megan. While she knew about the ruse, the lawyer said, she was apparently unaware that the Josh profile had been used to attack her neighbour's daughter. She claims the profile was the work of her teenage daughter and a teenage employee called Ashley Grills. Last month, Grills, now 19, went on national TV saying that while she was responsible for setting up the fake Josh profile, Lori Drew and her daughter were also involved in the cruel hoax. Grills also said she wrote the message to Megan about the world being a better place without her. The message was supposed to end the online relationship with "Josh" because Grills felt the joke had gone too far. "I was trying to get her angry so she would leave him alone and I could get rid of the whole MySpace," Grills said. Authorities in Missouri investigated Megan's death but failed to charge Drew after they were unable to find a law that she had broken. The charges being laid by federal prosecutors allege that Drew defrauded MySpace by helping set up a bogus profile, US Attorney Thomas P. O'Brien said this was the first time the federal statute on accessing protected computers has been used in a social-networking case. It has been used in the past to address hacking. "This was a tragedy that did not have to happen," O'Brien said. Both the girl and MySpace are named as victims in the case, he said. Drew will be arraigned in St. Louis and then moved to Los Angeles for trial. The indictment says MySpace members agree to abide by terms of service that include, among other things, not promoting information they know to be false or misleading; soliciting personal information from anyone under age 18 and not using information gathered from the Web site to "harass, abuse or harm other people." Drew and others who were not named conspired to violate the service terms from about September 2006 to mid-October that year, according to the indictment. It alleges they registered as a MySpace member under a phony name and used the account to obtain information on the girl. Drew and her coconspirators "used the information obtained over the MySpace computer system to torment, harass, humiliate, and embarrass the juvenile MySpace member," the indictment charged. After the girl killed herself, Drew and the others deleted the information for the account, the indictment said.

Laguna Niguel Hair Stylist Agrees! Still Digg'n Bobs

Mission Viejo Hair Stylist Agrees! Still Digg'n Bobs

2008 is and would be such a big year for hair trends that it's not too hard to see why so many hair trends in 2008 might feel familiar. While 2007 introduced us to the pob, it'll be its cousin the bob that we'll be wearing in 2009. And it's much the same story with the fringe trend: it was already with us at the start of 2007, had lost popularity by mid-year, but was brought back for 2008 by hypermodel Kate Moss in a completely new way. This year hair trends will range from boy-short crops to natural long tresses, with bobs in-between. We'll also be wearing various shapes of feminine, masculine, and elegant to name but a few, all taking their cues from the same eras as their parent clothing trends. So read on to find out the hair trends you'll be wearing in 2008. The Bob It was only ever going to give way to a more traditional style: 2007's pob hair style and trend has given way to the bob in 2008, and it's perfect for the year. Amazingly versatile, there are so many ways to wear the pob this year that you're going to be perfectly on trend but still 100% unique. If you're more traditional wear it as a natural accompaniment to the revival of the 60's and 70's.. Or go the other end of the spectrum with something far more modern: a longer, blunt cut You can make it your own in plenty of other ways: fringed or fringeless, blonde or brunette, short at the back, or blunt cut all over.

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80's hair styles: big hair Hair styles of the 80s are the most diverse and humorous characteristics of this decade. In early 80s, the New Romantic fashion styles kicked off the decade with great hair experimentation. For a while there seemed to be a competition to see who could build the tallest hair, have the strangest angles, or a favourite of this site - how much plastic, metal and mousse you could fit into your hair and still keep your head upright. In this first part of on ongoing series, eighty-eightynine will look at big hair. Big hair is not unique to the 80s - the 60s had the beehive and the 70s had the afro. What set the 80s hair styles apart was their diversity. The start of the decade saw the extravagance of strange hair colours and cuts. By 1984 the trends had settled and focused on one simple concept - volume. More hair was better. Bananarama had some of best examples of 80s hair - pretty much reflecting the fashions of the decade (but maybe not the best fashions) from cuts styles to volume and flicks. The 'Hair Bands' of the 1980s applied this style which was strongest around 1987-88. Your hair could go up, out and down. It could look like you put your head in a candy floss machine - as long as it wasn't straight - this was the ultimate sin in the early 80s (often met with the criticism 'she needs to do something with that hair'). By 87-88, the 70s started to return and it was suddenly OK to have a retro look. You could even have short hair provided it was bleached, dyed a bright color or spiked with hair gel). Many accessories were available to assist with this process - you could tease your hair and stick it up with mousse. Some mousse even contained glitter or other sparkle pieces to give your hair 'extra interest and individuality'. If you think shampoo stings, try getting glitter mousse in your eyes - a common occurrence as some brands tended to flake. Like any cultural period, bands of the 80s reflected styles of the decade. Below you will find images of Dave Stewart, Sisters of Mercy, Bananarama and more. If you want more 80s fashion, see the Leg Warmers section of this site. Do we remember products like Spritz Forte and Fizz or Fizz Extra. They were definitely the it products for hold and volume. Aveda was the up and coming.

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As stylists, many times it is not about hair. More often than not our thoughts and advice are heeded. Often a false self image is present and we realize the client is depressed. Or they open up and we receive a way to give.

Antidepressants: Selecting one that's right for you

Daunted by the choice in antidepressants? With persistence, you and your doctor should find one that works so you can enjoy life more fully again.

Antidepressant medications are often the first treatment choice for adults with moderate or severe depression, sometimes along with psychotherapy. Although antidepressants may not cure depression, they can help you achieve remission — the disappearance or nearly complete reduction of depression symptoms.

With scores of antidepressants available, finding the right medication for your situation can be challenging, though. Explore the decision-making process that may help you and your doctor find the best antidepressant for your situation.

Finding the right antidepressant for you

Finding the right antidepressant for your situation might take time. Each antidepressant has its own pros and cons, and until you try one, you won't know exactly how it'll affect you or how well it'll work. You may need to try several antidepressants before finding the one, or the combination, that works best for you.

In general, most antidepressants work pretty well for most people. So which antidepressant you and your doctor choose depends largely on:

• Anticipated side effects
• Your ability to tolerate these side effects and stick with the treatment
• Cost and health insurance coverage
• Previous experiences you or family members have had with antidepressants
• Whether you're pregnant or breast-feeding
• Your age
• Your other medical and psychiatric conditions

Blood test may help in choosing antidepressants

A blood test may help make the antidepressant decision somewhat easier. The test, called the cytochrome P450, helps pinpoint genetic factors that influence your response to certain antidepressants (as well as some other medications). The test doesn't predict which antidepressant will work best for you. But it does help suggest which ones may not work, and which ones may have the greatest side effects specifically for you.

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Approach to antidepressant treatment

Antidepressants are generally prescribed in a step-by-step treatment approach. When you're beginning treatment for the first time, doctors typically start by prescribing a type of antidepressant that's thought to be very effective and has the fewest side effects. If this doesn't work, your doctor may prescribe different types of antidepressants or combinations of two or more antidepressants and other medications. Don't give up until you find an antidepressant that's suitable for you — you have a good chance of finding one that works and doesn't have intolerable side effects.

First choices in antidepressants

Many doctors start by prescribing antidepressants known as SSRIs — selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors. This is because the side effects of these kinds of antidepressants are generally more tolerable than those of other types of antidepressants, and they also generally work well.

Other common first choices include:

• Serotonin and norepinephrine reuptake inhibitors (SNRIs)
• Norepinephrine and dopamine reuptake inhibitors (NDRIs)
• Combined reuptake inhibitors and receptor blockers
• Tetracyclic antidepressants

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• Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs)
• Serotonin and norepinephrine reuptake inhibitors (SNRIs)
• Norepinephrine and dopamine reuptake inhibitors (NDRIs)
• Combined reuptake inhibitors and receptor blockers
• Tetracyclic antidepressants

Second choices in antidepressants

The class of antidepressants called tricyclic antidepressants (TCAs) has been around longer than SSRIs, but TCAs are still effective. However, because TCAs tend to have more numerous and more severe side effects, they're often not used until you've tried SSRIs first without an improvement in your depression.

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• Tricyclic antidepressants (TCAs)

Last choices in antidepressants

The type of antidepressants called monoamine oxidase inhibitors (MAOIs) is often used as a last resort, when other medications haven't worked. That's because MAOIs can have serious side effects and require strict dietary restrictions because of rare but potentially fatal interactions. However, MAOIs can be very effective for some forms of depression. And newer versions of MAOIs that you stick on your skin as a skin patch rather than swallowing may have fewer side effects.

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• Monoamine oxidase inhibitors (MAOIs)

Trying out antidepressants

Once you and your doctor have selected an antidepressant — whether you start with a first, second or last choice — it may take four to eight weeks for it to be fully effective in controlling your depression symptoms. In rare cases, it may take 12 to 14 weeks to achieve the full effects of an antidepressant. And with some medications, you can take the full dosage immediately. With others, you may need to gradually increase your dose. Talk to your doctor or therapist about coping with depression symptoms as you wait for medications to take effect.

If you have no significant improvement in your symptoms after six weeks, talk to your doctor about trying a different antidepressant or adding a second antidepressant or another medication. A medication combination may work better for you than does a single antidepressant.

You may have to taper off one medication before starting another. This is because potentially dangerous medication interactions, such as serotonin syndrome, and withdrawal-like symptoms can occur from an abrupt switch.

In rare cases, antidepressants simply might not work for you. You may need to consider other forms of treatment.

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Side effects of antidepressants

All antidepressants can cause unwanted side effects. Not everyone experiences the same number or intensity of side effects, though. You may find that your side effects are so mild that you don't need to stop taking the antidepressant. Coping strategies also can help you manage side effects. In addition, side effects often go away or lessen within several weeks of starting an antidepressant.

If you experience unpleasant or intolerable side effects, don't just stop taking an antidepressant without consulting your doctor first. Some antidepressants can cause withdrawal-like symptoms unless you slowly taper off your dose.

Some antidepressants have the potential of causing serious or even life-threatening problems, such as liver failure or a dangerous drop in white cell count. While such cases are rare, it's important to get blood work or other tests on schedule and stick to your treatment regimen.

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Precautions when taking antidepressants

Although studies have shown that antidepressants are generally safe, some precautions are in order when taking them. The Food and Drug Administration (FDA) now requires that all antidepressant medications carry black box warnings. These are the strictest warnings that the FDA can issue for prescription medications.

The antidepressant warnings note that in some cases, children, adolescents and young adults ages 18 to 24 may have an increase in suicidal thoughts or behavior when taking antidepressants, especially in the first few weeks after starting an antidepressant or changing a dosage. Because of this risk, they must be closely monitored by loved ones, caregivers and health care providers while taking antidepressants.

In addition, if you're pregnant or breast-feeding, some antidepressants may pose an increased health risk to your unborn child. Talk to your doctor about any concerns you have, and together you can explore options to get your depression symptoms under control.

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AHH! This one is for men. All the women get attention and advice.. Let's try shaving. Tho here at the salon in Mission Viejo I do not shave. i do shave myself and here to advise. shaving is reserved for the barber, not the hair stylist or rather a cosmetology licensed hairdresser, such as I.
STEP ONE: PREP Always shave after or at the end of a shower, to soften the beard, open the pores, and cleanse the skin. In a rush, a warm towel and splash of water can be used as a substitute. Use a great quality shave cream like Metro Men's Grooming Ultimate Shave Cream. Stay away from gels or products which contain menthol, which will close your pores and stiffen your beard. If you have a tough beard or very sensitive skin, you may wish to apply a Metro Men's Grooming Pre Shave Oil before you apply shaving cream. This will help further soften the beard and reduce razor drag. Shaving cream is ideally applied with a brush (badger hair is best) to soften and lift the beard. Place a pea sized amount of cream in the deep in the center of your brush and smooth the bristles together. Next, wet the brush well with hot water and apply to the face in a circular motion. If you choose not to use a shaving brush, work the shave cream between wet hands for sixty seconds or until a rich lather is produced. A good prep is vital to soften the beard and minimize irritation. Also, make sure you change your blade at least once per week - dull blades play hell on your face. STEP TWO: SHAVE Use a clean, sharp razor such as the Gillette Mach3. Start by shaving WITH the grain (the direction the hair grows). This will minimize cuts, irritation, in-grown hairs and razor burn. Glide the razor gently over your face. Avoid applying pressure and rinse your blade often. If you must have a closer shave, re-lather and shave lightly against the grain. If you cut yourself, apply a moist alum block on the area to stop bleeding. After shaving, close the pores with a rinse of cool water. If using a shaving brush, always hang the brush to dry with the bristles facing downward. STEP THREE: REPAIR AND PROTECT Many men make the mistake of stopping with step two, but the following is important to keep your skin healthy and protect from signs of aging. After rinsing with cool water, moisturize and protect your skin with a few pumps of Metro Men's Grooming Post Shave Repair. This will help soothe and moisturize the skin and promote healing. GETTING GOOD HEAD FIRST TIME HEAD SHAVERS, TAKE NOTE: Remember, a shaved head is not for everyone. If you are extremely thin, have an oddly shaped head or scalp problems, then a bald head is probably not for you. If you decide to go for it, remember it will always grow back if you don't like it. Shaving your head will dramatically change your appearance and may take a bit of time to get used to. Many men look great with a shaved head. But to pull one off, you must have confidence in your look. Always shave your head for the first time at the start of the weekend to give you time to get comfortable with your new look (and get some color on your white scalp) before you face your friends and colleagues. Allow yourself a good half hour to get the deed done for the first time. If you think you're ready, here goes.... NOTE: THERE IS NOTHING MORE UNATTRACTIVE THAN A BALD HEAD FULL OF BUMPS, RAZOR RASH, AND IN-GROWN HAIRS. IT IS ESSENTIAL THAT YOU PREP THE SCALP, SHAVE PROPERLY, AND PROTECT AFTERWARD. DO NOT SKIP ANY OF THE STEPS BELOW. THE FIRST TIME YOU SHAVE, THE PROCESS WILL TAKE ROUGHLY 30 MINUTES. WITH TIME AND PRACTICE, YOU WILL GET THE ROUTINE DOWN TO UNDER TEN. GOOD LUCK. STEP ONE: THE PRE-SHAVE (FOR FIRST-TIMERS) The first step in shaving your head is to remove as much of the hair as possible. Using a hair clipper with no guard, buzz the hair off as close to the scalp as possible. STEP TWO: PREP Always shave your head after or at the end of a shower, to soften the hair, open the pores, and cleanse the skin. Your shower should last at least 10 minutes. During the shower, lightly soap a washcloth and with a slight pressure glide the cloth all over your head against the grain. This will lift the hair for easier shaving. Rinse your head and the washcloth remain in the shower for few additional minutes. Next, apply a good shave cream and let it stand for a few minutes to soften the hair even more. I swear by Metro Men's Grooming Ultimate Shave Cream. Stay away from gels or products which contain menthol, which will close your pores and stiffen the hair. Shaving cream is ideally applied with a badger hair brush to soften and lift the hair. Never skimp on the preparation. This is vital to a good head shave! First time shavers should exfoliate the scalp before applying the shaving cream (veteran baldies, should exfoliate twice weekly). Use a loofa or special facial scrub. STEP THREE: SHAVE Always have a hand mirror available so you can check the shave from all angles. You don't want to miss anything. Also, shave your head at the sink and make sure you have bright lighting. Proper lighting very important. Use a clean, sharp razor such as the Gillette Mach3. Start by shaving WITH the grain (the direction the hair grows). This will minimize cuts, irritation, in-grown hairs and razor burn. Glide the razor down the sides and back and then from back to front on top. Avoid applying pressure (you don't want nicks or cuts) and rinse your blade often. Take it easy, pay attention, and be patient. You don't want to rush or get clumsy during this process. After completing the shave, apply a small amount of lather to your hands and rub your entire head, checking for rough spots (sometimes you can't see them), especially behind the ears and on the back of the neck. Shave over any missed places. If you must have a closer shave, re-lather and shave lightly against the grain. Remember, shaving an area over and over can cause razor burn, so try to avoid it. If you cut yourself, apply a moist alum block on the area to stop bleeding. After shaving, close the pores with a rinse of cool water. If using a shaving brush, always hang the brush to dry with the bristles facing downward. Shave your head daily. The process will be easier if you do. STEP FOUR: REPAIR AND PROTECT You will need to hydrate and protect the skin. Finishing with a good gel or balm is key to leaving the skin soft, smooth, and protected.. Remember, you should always wear sunscreen on your head. The skin on your head is more sensitive and very susceptible to skin cancer. First time shavers will want to get some color on their scalp. I recommend the use of a self-tanning cream rather than exteneded sun exposure. With time, your scalp will develop color and you will not have to apply self-tanning cream Be sure to buy a high-quality self-tanner and test it on a hidden part of your body to make sure the color looks natural. You don't want to walk around with a big, orange, bald head! : ) MAINTAIN I Shaving your head daily or every other day will ensure better results and keep you looking fresh. Always mositurize and apply a good sunscreen. Headshaving is so common now, several companies now make products just for bald guys. Ever seen a bald guy shampoo? No. Well, here you go. Now, go out and proudly show off that bald head of yours!